What should I do about bullying at school?

• Make a list of the things that have happened to your child or teenager. Be prepared to clearly and calmly describe the situation. Be ready to name the children who are bullying.
• Tell the principal, guidance counsellor or dean. Discuss what steps the school should take to prevent it happening again.
• Don't contact the bully's parents before you speak to the school.
• Keep in contact with the school until the problem is sorted out. If you don't feel things improve or you're unhappy with the school policy on bullying, contact the school again.
• You can also contact the school's Board of Trustees.

If bullying is happening on the way to/from school, it is still worth contacting the school. They can help you deal with the problem. You or another older person could walk to school with your child, until the bullying is sorted out. If the bullying is happening at an out-of-school activity, talk to the supervisor.

Family Services has a searchable directory region where you can access organisations providing help and support

Kiwi Families has a wide range of articles and forums discussing bullying

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